Category: Let's talk
If you have ever said no, and the fella persisted please print your name here.
Nem-
lol Nem. I think I told him no like 3 times and it didn't work. He just kept pressuring me to keep going so I did what any sensible woman should do, call out another man's name. That stopped him right away. It's really a shame because now I never believe those who claim they're strong enough to stop when their woman says no! lol Even my fiance doesn't stop after the first no! hehe But at least I don't have to resort to calling out another man's name. lol That'll definetly break off my engagement! hehehehe
Michelle
Nem,
I'm not sure exactly how you mean this. Are you talking about trying to say no to sex or trying to say no to someone who just keeps asking you out even though you've said no at least once before?
I should have been more clear. If you have said no to any intimate activity that could and or might lead to sexual intercourse and the fella kept trying after the first no, then put your name here please.
Nem-
Yes, I have had to say no more than once with dates, and I think most girls have.
Becky
Ah, the enlightenment of QN discussions.
I am definitely adding my name to this board.
Oh, erm, okay ...
Chelsea
Michelle, calling out another guy's name? That's a very nice trick! I like it! Even if the persistent SOB isn't your boyfriend, that one should work. Ha!
I've definitely had guys not listen when I've said no before, so here goes.
Alicia
*jots down my name.
Cala
um...hang on? Why does this only apply to Women?
Not saying that i'm anything special or whatever, but i've had experience of a girl persisting, down to the point where i actually had to throw her out of the house before...so yeah, it works both ways, ya know?
lol Very good point, Moyzey. I guess you mostly hear of men being more persistent when it comes to sex but there are some pretty wild women out there. hehe I know of some men who like women who are assertive when it comes to sex but I guess too much is never a good thing.
Michelle
Janelle! How many guys do we know though, would push a girl away if she's persisting though...I do add my name here...
well here's one for starters. *smiles
I just believe there's the right time and circumstances for sex. Not ALL, guys, contrary to common beliefs, will just sleep with the first girl who offers it to them. hehehehe,
You are right though in saying a lot will.
i meant to add:
Not that there's anything necessarily wrong with that, or that they should be judged for doing so...
but anyway, back to the topic?
Yep, to the original question.
Erin
Yes plenty of times.
Jessica
I'm the second male here who's post his yes. *smile*
I do have one question though. Are we saying it's bad to persist, or are we just wanting to know how many ladies have to say no? I'd think that apply to every lady on earth unless she stenks or has warts.
I was simply trying to prove that people who listen to a woman who says no the first time is few and far between. I think this is an ideal and not a realistic view. We're not talking rape here at all, we're talking just does a fella push after the first no.
Sure, and i know that was what you were trying to say. The point i was trying to make was it's not just guys that persist. Granted far more guys will persist than girls, but some girls do, and it's not every guy that'll just agree to it because it's sex and they enjoy it...that's all
shea adds her name here. shana! lol!